{"id":46212,"date":"2022-10-27T17:37:19","date_gmt":"2022-10-27T10:37:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nicvn.com\/?p=46212"},"modified":"2022-12-29T11:26:30","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T04:26:30","slug":"lam-the-nao-de-luon-lac-quan-trong-cong-viec-va-cuoc-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nicvn.com\/vi\/lam-the-nao-de-luon-lac-quan-trong-cong-viec-va-cuoc-song","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. H\u1ecd k\u00ec v\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/p>\n

\"What
What is an Optimist<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 \u201cn\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n<\/h2>\n

L\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tinh th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ee9c b\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, trong s\u00e1ng\u2026 gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ecdi ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f9y v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n hay ch\u00f9n b\u01b0\u1edbc, bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf\u2026 Tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1c quan khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n

\"Tinh
Tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1c quan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

S\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan mang l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/h2>\n
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Nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
    \n
  • L\u1ea1c quan gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, gi\u00fap cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n
  • Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan lu\u00f4n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>\n
  • Tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1c quan v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u00fd ch\u00ed, l\u1ea1c quan s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    8 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ea1c quan?<\/h2>\n

    C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ea1c quan, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4i khi ph\u1ea3i luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u1eed:<\/p>\n

    \"L\u00e0m
    L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ea1c quan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

    Ghi ch\u00fa l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    V\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh 10 ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. Vi\u1ebft ch\u00fang v\u00e0o nh\u1eadt k\u00fd ho\u1eb7c theo d\u00f5i b\u1eb1ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c tr\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c m\u00e1y t\u00ednh b\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y tuy \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed7i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian tr\u00ean Facebook, \u0111\u1eebng xem nh\u1eefng tin x\u1ea5u.<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    Ng\u00e0y nay, Internet \u0111ang gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean c\u00e1c k\u00eanh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt, c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, … v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 tin t\u1ee9c. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft gi\u1eefa h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u tin t\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111a ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c tin x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan. Trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c k\u00eanh m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, Facebook l\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00f4ng d\u1ee5ng nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u0103ng n\u1ed9i dung l\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng xem nh\u1eefng tin t\u1ee9c x\u1ea5u m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee7y theo d\u00f5i nh\u1eefng trang cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tuy nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    T\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa hay \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i khi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1eadt v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.Khi b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai? Th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00edch th\u1ee9c d\u1eady m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m? B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0103n m\u1eebng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? Nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc Hy L\u1ea1p n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng Aristotle \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, “Bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan.”<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    Bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n gi\u00fap m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi. H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen nh\u1ecf t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec ngo\u00e0i kia c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh.<\/span>\u202f<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    Nghe nh\u1ea1c<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n h\u01a1n? N\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a, m\u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0i h\u00e1t b\u1ea1n th\u00edch v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi \u00e2m thanh. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u00f2n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, gi\u1ea3m \u0111au v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nghe nh\u1ea1c m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb.<\/span>\u202f<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    Suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    Khi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c (nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t). Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.<\/span>\u202f <\/span>M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u1ed5n th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00fang.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh<\/span><\/b><\/h3>\n

    Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0o n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    B\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean bi quan? Suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c ch\u00fang, t\u00ecm b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    H\u00e3y c\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu<\/span><\/b>\u202f<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

    Ai c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f4i khi, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/span>\u202f<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan<\/span><\/h2>\n

    C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 Abraham Lincoln<\/h3>\n
    \"C\u00e2u
    C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

    V\u1ecb t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng th\u1ee9 16 c\u1ee7a Hoa K\u1ef3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kinh doanh ri\u00eang v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng do thi\u1ebfu n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hai l\u1ea7n trong kinh doanh v\u00e0 t\u00e1m l\u1ea7n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed. Khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi b\u00e0 Mary Todd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai nh\u01b0ng ba trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft s\u1edbm do b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m cho \u00f4ng
    \nNh\u01b0ng v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1860, \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eed l\u00e0 \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea3ng d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 cho ch\u1ee9c t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng c\u1eed v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh T\u1ed1ng th\u1ed1ng Hoa K\u1ef3 trong th\u1eddi n\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 g\u1ed1c Phi.<\/p>\n

    M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan<\/h2>\n
    \"Nh\u1eefng
    Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

    “Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create.”
    \n– Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart<\/p>\n

    “Thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, h\u00e3y d\u00e0ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

     <\/p>\n

    “Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.”
    \n– Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart<\/p>\n

    H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bay cao, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng l\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

     <\/p>\n

    “Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy.”
    \n– Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart<\/p>\n

    \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc, lo l\u1eafng hay h\u1eadn th\u00f9. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft?<\/h2>\n

    M\u00e0u v\u00e0ng \u2013 m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac
    \nM\u00e0u v\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nay lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 gam m\u00e0u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho s\u1ef1 sang tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i. M\u00e0u v\u00e0ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a \u00e1nh n\u1eafng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o, khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf n\u1ed9i th\u1ea5t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1eebng s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0 m\u00e0u mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u01b0\u01a1i vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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